As Christmas approaches, I tend to think about world affairs in terms of the Christian values I grew up believing. I look back over the year, and forward to the next year. I even make some predictions, not of the wheeooooeee type, but based on my analysis of events and conditions in society and in the world.
I read this morning that Ireland has mailed letters to about 6000 unemployed Irish, asking them to move to other EU nations. This strikes me as wrong on at least two fronts. The first is that as a Catholic nation, which prohibits birth control, the nation helped create the long term unemployed and owes them better than asking them to leave their home. The second is that the other EU nations have their own unemployment problems and might not welcome 6000 unemployed immigrants.
The day before I had read that Google (or amazon) was looking to replace clerks with robots. Prior to this, I have read pieces saying that we will now permanently have a higher rate of unemployment. I have also read that those who have been unemployed longer than six months are now considered unemployable. My Christian values tell me that if society cannot offer people jobs, it should, at a minimum, leave them their dignity, and provide them with life's necessities. This has made the Christian right's position of blaming the unemployed for their condition, and blaming it on laziness and unwillingness to work, simply unfathomable and immoral.
Love, and charity, Jesus himself, require us to treat the unemployables with respect, and dignity, not scorn and the cloak of invisibility that descends when we assume people "don't want to work." Honestly, how many of us can say that we would keep looking for a job after we are told by agencies and employers that we have been unemployed too long to be considered? With dwindling financial reserves, how much would any of us continue to expend on transportation, clothing expenses (even if just cleaning and pressing), printing up and sending out resumes? Who do you think an employer would hire -- a 32 year old with children, or someone in their late forties or early fifties with health issues?
Do we just toss people away, like disposable coffee cups and razors? Do we just say "I'll pray for you?' When we say it, how often do we actually pray for a solution to the suffering and the stress? Once? Daily until we hear the person's situation has improved?
Into this walks Pope Francis, who is the first Pope since I became conscious of the existence of a Pope, which was the installation of Pope John XXII, who walks and talks as I imagine Jesus did, or close to it. What does the Christian Right do? Attack him as "communist" like "Obama." I heard someone mention that Pope Francis was not even born in the United States! Hmm, I'm not Catholic, and I know that NONE of them throughout history were born in the United States. So how is that a relevant comment? Is it just a stupid one?
If you have been reading my blog, or any of my pages, or my Facebook page, you know that I have SLE (Systemic Lupus Erythmatosis). What you may not realize is that this is primarily "a woman's disease," as 90% of the patients are women. Most of them are 15 -45, the childbearing years. For some enlightening information about pregnancy and lupus, please read this study in Japan about pregnancy outcomes and lupus .Women of color, across the board have higher rates than white women. I once had a former Texas benefits evaluator tell me that "lupus is a made up disease by people who are too lazy to work." To me, it was clear he was referring to Black women. Black women have higher death rates from breast and cervical cancer, higher rates of STD's and teen pregnancies, higher infant mortanlity. SOURCE: Debunking the myth. Black women, Hispanic women, Native American women all have higher rates of lupus. Black women have more severe outcomes more often. Poor women without health insurance have a harder time getting the help they need to treat lupus. SOURCE: Lupus Fact sheetFor some information about lupus symptoms in general, please read this article about two lupus patients. My diagnosis was originally made by a gynecologist to whom I had gone for a simple pap smear. At the time, I had health insurance. I no longer have health insurance, and my best option for pap smears is Planned Parenthood. Read one woman's story about not affording to go anywhere but Planned Parenthood. Please make yourself aware of two FACTS:
1. NOT ONE TAXPAYER DOLLAR GOES TO ABORTION. That has been prohibited since the 1970s.
2. Abortions are only 3% of their services FACT SHEET HERE
Finally, let's talk about SOCIAL SECURITY and Disability and Social Security Supplemental Income. I worked from age 15 until about 40. I've been fighting to get SSDI so I can get Medicare to cover my lupus medications. First they told me I ought to be able to work (in 1995) because I am educated. Know many employers who want employees who fall asleep on the job, or who miss work frequently because they cannot drag themselves out of bed and stay awake long enough to bathe, dress, and get to work? Or who catch the flu and the miss weeks because the immunosuppressant drugs they take for lupus don't fight the flu well and leave them with bronchitism pneumonia and a lupus flare in which their joints swell and cause agonizing pain? If so, please send those employers my way! I'd love to work, use my brain again for pay. Of course, it has to be low stress and pretty free of deadlines, because stress makes my lupus worse, and I never know which day I'm going to wake up and be unable to stay awake -- which makes it difficult to meet those deadlines. See this blog
for another person's perspective.
The next time I applied for SSI/SSDI they told me my $3000+ savings account made me ineligible for SSI and I no longer had enough qualifying quarters for SSDI. I appealled and they told me I wasn't disabled! NOIT DISABLED? I cannot shop without either my husband pushing me in the wheelchair or an electric cart. Some days my knees hurt so badly the 8' from my bed to the toilet has me in tears. I cannot stand in lines for more than 30 seconds without the knees and hips begging me to sit down. That's not disabled?
Now their story is that we cannot prove I was disabled WHILE I STILL HAD ENOUGH QUALIFYING QUARTERS. THEY have the 1995 records with the doctors names, but OOPS I can no longer get those records because the doctors who made the disagnosis, and who treated me, destroyed the records 10 years after my last visit. I'm SURE those records are in the SS records; they just demand that I produce them, knowing I can't.
So now I'm still 5 years too young for SS and Medicare. What if they raise the retirement age? First how will we tap into our retirement accounts without penalty to pay for medical expenses? I will NEVER see my SS money that I paid into the system all those years I worked (sometimes at 2-3 jobs at a time!). I WILL NOT LIVE LONG ENOUGH!
Let me repeat that I WILL NOT LIVE LONG ENOUGH! I can no longer take Methotrexate because my platelet levels drop too low and I am in danger of bleeding to death internally. The prednisone I have been on for over a year now will, according to my rheumatologist "take five years off your life." It also induced Type II diabetes, which is implicated in heart disease, even if I didn't have the extra clotting factor from lupus. The Hydorxychloroquine (Plaquanil) no longer controls the disease by itself. I also cannot take aspirin, NSAIDs like ibuprofen. So I take ginger and turmeric for the constant pain. Some days it works, some days it doesn't work so well. I need Ben Lysta, according to my rheumatologist, but she's not going to administer it. It's about $2000-$3000 a pop. I think it's once a month. I tried to get onto a drug trial, but the diagnoses (both of which I think are wrong) the county hospital gave me of non-alcoholic cirrhosis and heart failure keep me out of the trial. I need a liver biopsy to rule out the cirrhosis, and an echocarcdogram for the heart failure.
My only hope is Obama's health care plan, because I could not be denied coverage for pre-existing conditions. If I cannot afford the private health insurance or the high risk pool insurance, I could, as I understand it, get Medicare without having to be on SS, SSI, or SSDI. So think twice before you pull the lever for someone who wants to repeal Obamacare; that lever pull will be a death sentence for me and many others with my illness or others like it. Of course, it you want to be a good, compassionate Christian, you can send me money at PayPal to help with my medical expenses. Leave a comment on this website and I'll send you my email. They are. or would, if I were seeing the doctors I need to see and taking the meds I need to take run from $3000 in a good year for routine meds and visits and tests to upwards of $24,000 if I had to be hospitalized. My brother is currently supporting us and paying our medical expenses. He's nearing retirement age. He spent years paying for our mother's needs because her SS didn't cover the utilities, food, out of pocket medical expenses. Now he has us, and his own family.
SO please look into your heart and see if you want to pull my plug by voting to kill "Obamacare
If you are currently unemployed, or have been unemployed for much of the last 2-3 years, carefully calculate when the starting quarters of eligibility for SS benefits began and when you will have accrued enough AGAIN (forget your 20+ years of prior employment cause the clock has restarted), and what quarter you plan to retire. If you are 45+ odds are that unless you start a new job TOMORROW and never again are unemployed, you will not qualify for SS ever, at any age of retirement. So if you don't have an IRA, 401(K) or a generous pension, you are probably facing an old age of poverty. Even with them, you may be.
You see, I suspect the holding jobs hostage goes way beyond the petty partisan "I wanna get what I want and screw you." It is about ensuring that there will be no "SS burden" from baby-boomers by wholesale disqualifying them, about ripping up the wealth building avenues for minorities that scare the upper scum, uh crust -- through taking your home, your bank account (through fees), your income stream, and forcing you to spend all the assets you have just to eat today. The REVOLUTION has started. The rest of us have revolted people like the KOCH brothers and the MURDOCHS of this nation by actually wanting to participate in our democracy, uh republic, uh society, uhm NATIONAL DIALOGUE.
The ultra wealthy started it. It is class warfare, If you don't belong to that privileged class (and Herman Cain, you do NOT as they pat you on your head and send you out to do their battles), you are its target.. You're the worm for these big fish. Do not dream you matter to them.
God Bless the USA, may she rest in peace. She died while you were frittering your life away on idle entertainment, passionate religious distractions (from What would Jesus Do to anti-abortion rallies), petty daily concerns of your family, popular fiction about werewolves and vampires instead of thought-provoking essays and non-fiction, and silly Madison Avenue-stoked insecurities about having the "latest" fashion name on your clothes, shoes, car, etc. I WILL NEVER FORGIVE YOU, but YOUR CHILDREN WILL INHERIT THE SCORCHED EARTH YOU HAVE PISSED AWAY!
They will beg for food, air to breathe, the ability to get somewhere (and too unfit to WALK there), clean water to drink, shelter from weather and storms. They will lay unburied, and unmourned, where they drop. Congratulations on your "fine" parenting skills.
Are you scared yet? Motivated? You should be. If you aren't, well you don't deserve FREEDOM or the USA I grew up knowing.. You're a stupid vegetative self-centered worm who deserves to be eaten and watch one;s beloved children suffering because you chose denial over participation and believing in pap and pablum propaganda over thinking and facing hard realities (like you can't burn gasoline at 12 mpg forever without using it up, changing the climate, and RUNNING OUT!)
The other thing that happened yesterday was that I got a call from the SSI office regarding my (forced) application for financial assistance. I say forced because when I was hospitalized in May, I awoke on the 19th, after having arrived about 5 pm, being admitted at about 6:45 pm, lain in the "holding area" of the county hospital until about 4 am and then put in a 5 bed ward, to find a cheery young woman telling me that I had to apply for SSDI before they could honor Gold Card Status and pay the bills for me. So we filled out the forms to the best of my groggy, lacking all the back up documents for the application, condition.
The way this works is that they submit the apllication for RSDI (Retirement, survivors, Disability Income). This is what the old Social Security for retirees, dependent (minor) survivors of a deceased person and the disabled used to apply for, all rolled into one. I already knew I would be rejected because when I applied in the mid-1990s for Disability due to my lupus, I was denied on the grounds that as an educated person I should be able to work. Sure, and when you find an employer who likes employees who miss random numbers of days when the pain and fatigue are simply overwhelming, and who sometimes gets up feeling good but within a few hours starts nodding off at their desk without the help of heroin or other illegal drugs (or even legal soporifics for that matter), let me know. I haven't worked since, so now, although I worked from age 15 to 40-something, sometimes 2-3 jobs, I no longer have enough qualifying quarters within the past 10 years (DUH!), so they again declined SSDI. I SHOULD have gotten it before.
After about 10 minutes of questions, the woman told me she was terminating the interview because I was ineligible. Why? I have more than $2000 in my savings, checking, CD's, and IRA and my husband's 401K. Why didn't they ask that question firs,t I wonder? Could have saved us both the time, and the taxpayer money. Second, I don't work, my husband (age 49) started his third year of unemployment just after Labor Day. without much interest, even for part-time work (7 offers in the three years, all within the 2nd & this new third year. I have more than $2000 because I inherited about $10,000 from my mother's insurance policies, and the estate was only recently settled. Oh he was offered a temp job last week -- 1.5 hours one way from our house, and about an hour's worth of the pay at the job per day in gas required to get there (no bus service available which would get him there without several hours of travel each way and a long walk from the stop to the job site).
What is the purpose of making me spend all of that money when I may need it to live on next year. Rebuilding a life would be a lot easier if I got a little help NOW despite that money,, instead of waiting until I have no assets. If I spend it, and my husband doesn't ever get another job making enough to support us and get him to a job, I'll need help until I die paying for medical expenses, care-taking while he's at work, and part of our normal expenses, since $10 an hour (much less than he was making before) will not cover the basic expenses in Houston. My husband's prior salary barely did, when you figure in the cost of clothing, gasoline, maintenance on the car my brother lets us use, medicines, food, etc. etc. In fact, a home health care worker for 4 hours a day would eat up his entire take home. The guy across the street has MS, and he has someone who comes in to help him, and his wife told me his entire income of about $40,000 a year barely covers that, his health insurance and medications. Do the math.
As to the 401(K), if we take it out we pay a substantial penalty, and if they raise retirement age in Congress, it's likely neither of us will be alive to collect it, or Social Security we both paid into. Which means either my older brother will inherit it, which is ok because he's paying all our bills and expenses now, or if he's gone, it will go to charity. We have discussed this, and our charity of choice is one which helps orphans and foster children who are "aging out" of the system get established in college, careers, and life (See http://www.cwla.org/programs/fostercare/agingoutresources.htm for data on the 20,000-25,000 of these kids per year and their problems, and just think about how much help YOU got from your parents during your years from 18 - 25 or so and imagine facing life without that help.) In this economic climate, these kids face daunting challenges as jobs and contributions are thin on the ground. Why can't Congress remove the penalty for long-term unemployed, people losing their homes, people like myself who are denied SSDI because we have been disabled but denied and lack the qualifying quarters.
I know WHY it is. Some people are so afraid SOMEONE might get a penny of THEIR money. It's still insane policy to force people all the way down the road into abject poverty and then expect them to climb out without any assets to work with. It would be insane policy to TAX them into it, like Cain's 9-9-9 would as well.
Tomorrow I have to deal with the county clinic doctor who has been billing FULL PRICE (instead of my Gold Card price I was eligible for as of the date of the visit) until the RSDI/SSI decision came down, and has already turned me over to a collection agency. Not only did I not have the money to pay full price ($320 for an office visit -- my private rheumatologist doesn't charge me that much for a visit AND the inhouse lab work!) -- I was reluctant to do so because I was afraid I'd never get back my overpayment. The Physicians Group refused to even tell me what the Gold Card fee would be or to negotiate for me to pay that amount until this process was settled. Now that it has been, I wonder what they will come up with as an excuse for not billing me the Gold Card price. To top it all off, the last correspondence I have seems to say that this clinic, run by the Harris County Hospital District "does not deal with Ben Taub Hospital" (where I was hospitalized) and will not even call them to discuss my eligibility. All the clinics and the hospitals are run by Harris County Hospital District, so what's that deal? They told me to call LBJ Hospital (where I have only been once in my life, and not as a patient, but to visit my Little Sister in the 70s when she had her baby there) to "get your records straightened out." They also seemed to suggest that since I didn't use LBJ, I should be going to another (more distant) clinic. However, their email was rambling and unclear, so I might have misunderstood them. ;)
So happy days in
This has been a DAY! When I say that, you should understand that it was full and somewhat maddening. It was, however, a gorgeous fall day in Houston! The cooler weather is simply DIVINE...as in a real gift from God to a city that baked, parched, and nervously watched fires for so long. As the sun was setting, I was preparing my front planter box for the beets, carrots and green onions I'm planting in it. Half the box is done..just finishing up the rest. From the pine across the street came the call of what I'm pretty sure was a Great Horned Owl. Peace flooded back into my veins, after having been disrupted earlier in the day by two separate events.
The second of these, which I shall discuss first, involved walking out to hear my neighbor telling my husband that the heavy trash he put out today, thinking it would be picked up tomorrow morning, needed to be removed from the curb "or you might get a ticket." Last month, my husband had put this stuff out, only to discover when the truck came around that last month was the "limbs and yard waste only" heavy trash day. So he hauled the stuff back inside our yard. After decades of living across the side street from this neighbor and his wife, I was immediately suspicious that he had already called the city to complain about this trash. Never have I met a more O-C, anal retentive, appearance means everything, house proud couple in my life. Mind you, they don't like government interfering in their lives, but they're perfect (just ask them), yet they are the first to call the city government when a neighbor offends their sense of neatness of property. What I wanted to say to him was "Oh, so you've called them and filed a complaint already, have you?" I KNOW he has, and that he redeems himself by "looking nice" and "warning" us that we could be ticketed. It makes him "look nice," he thinks.
This I know; they used to regularly call the city and have my widowed mother ticketed when they were first married. Always, they would "warn" us. Now heavy trash for our house can be easily seen ONLY by this couple. The two houses behind mine and his are screened from seeing the "unsightly" pile by a fence on my side of the street and thick plantings on his. So I know it's he who wants to not look at it. Granted, someone might drive by and be so enraged that they actually remember to call when they get home, but what are the odds? After all, the traffic on that street even at rush hour is maybe one car an hour. This month, I fully admit that we got the wrong Thursday...it's the 4th not the 3rd like we thought. What else is true, is that we are allowed to put heavy trash on the Friday BEFORE our scheduled pickup...which would be the day after tomorrow. Did I say "anal?" What the heck is the big deal about TWO days early? DID I say "anal?"
When he went home, I started working on my planter box, and then I got so mad, I went around to the back gate and started struggling with the top mattress on the pile to get all the stuff inside my fence. I got the mattress off the pile and down into the ditch (no culvert or driveway here). When I tried to roll it over to get it up the slope, I folded it and then tried to flip the folded package. The mattress sprang up and hit me in the face, leaving me flailing around trying not to fall backwards into the ditch. Please don't ask me why I tried this same thing twice more before giving up. I think I thought I should be able to make it work! If I were 28 and not dealing with active lupus, I'm sure I could have! However, I realized on the third try I was defining "insanity."
So I called my husband's name and "help" our bedroom being at the back of the house. I figured he could hear me. From down the street , toward my "behind" neighbor's house, a man answered me.
"Who are you calling? What do you need help with?" I could not see him because of the pecan tree foliage.
"I was calling my husband to help me with this stuff." I looked in the direction of the voice, and saw a man who looked like a street person, riding up on a bicycle, a paper bag with a beer can in his hand.
"What's his name? Where is he?" he asks. I told him the name and said that he should be inside this back bedroom, pointing as I answered. I thought perhaps this guy would cycle up there and knock on the window and and tell my husband.
"What are you doing trying to move this stuff, ma'am? Let me do that for you." He got off his bike, and grabbed the mattress and WHOOSH inside the fence it went. Then he spryly stepped back to the pile and grabbed the next item. By the time he got to the third one, my husband came sauntering out. Together they moved the rest of the large heavy furniture inside the fence. I moved the cushions and a lightweight broken chair. It took maybe 5 minutes from the moment the man had called out to me. He kept telling me "Don't worry about those, ma'am, you'll wind yourself."
I asked my husband if we still had any of the beers he'd bought for the carpenter my brother had hired to do some work around the house before my mother died last November. He went inside to get them, and I chatted with this fellow. He used to live two streets over, but then lost his job. His mother had died and he had no family, working as a maintenance man in a nearby apartment complex, and odd job man for some other people in the neighborhood. I asked if he was living rough, and he said he was living at a local motel which he named, and which I know to be cheap and about 4 miles away. I learned he was 10 years younger than I am, where he went to junior high and high school. He's of German heritage and grew up here in Houston. I told him his eyes reminded me of my mother's father, whom I had adored and who died just after we moved to this house in 1957.
My husband came out with two beers for him, and he protested that wasn't necessary. I told him "We can't drink them, and the guy we bought them for quit drinking, and this is the only thing I've got to thank you with." Now I know many would think it was wrong of me to give beer to someone who possibly is an alcoholic. I would think so myself most of the time. What I have learned however, are two things. One, each person has the right to their own vices, and you cannot make them choose not to indulge in them. Second, given the circumstances of his life, those two Guinness dark beers might be one of the few pleasures he has in life. Maybe I learned something else too. Some people who don't look so savory and whose lifestyle might be objectionable to others have wonderful hearts and generous souls. I think I knew that already, but it certainly struck me that my neighbor merely "looked" kind and wasn't, and this stranger opened his heart to help someone without asking any thing in return.
"No need for that," he said
"You were a blessing when I needed one," I said "This is my way of thanking you."
"And this is your thank you!" he said, and smiled, lighting up those those pale ice blue eyes with the glow of heaven. I wonder, might Jesus not return as someone like this? A down and out person living day to day, or a welfare mother who made "bad choices?" Or would Jesus come back as someone who looked and lived like my neighbor -- always neat and tidy but trying to control the behaviors of others? When the Bible talks about "denying Jesus" could it be talking bout passing by someone like my angel of today as "unsavory?"
Having taken so much time and space writing this, I will save the other story for another post. Anyway, I'm hongree! Thanks for reading this. I'll be interested to see if anyone leaves any comments or fills out the form on my homepage.